by Kathy Sanborn
A sacred union will come about only when you are sufficiently ready for such an experience. By taking steps to grow as a spiritual being, you are then able to aid the progress of your own evolution, and thus attract a partner on a similar path. If you are fortunate enough to have found a partner with whom you share a deep spiritual bond, the following guidelines will be instrumental in helping to cultivate and strengthen your connection. These principles will be of enormous value to you as well if your present partner is not your soul mate; by practicing these steps below, you will make great strides in elevating your relationship to a soul level.
Seeds to Nurture a Spiritual Union
1. Cherish Your Partner
There are several steps one needs to take to promote a soul bond between partners. The first, and probably most important, step is to cherish your mate as you would God, for indeed, your partner truly is an element of this Infinite Spirit. Given that we are all interconnected through the bond of spirit, your lover is a representative of God, just as you are. It is paramount that your union be handled with respect, kindness, and love as befitting a sacred connection.
Cherishing your partner could be as simple as expressing a compliment, or giving a massage for no special reason. Use your imagination and creativity to delight your lover; the pleasure you give need not cost a dime, but will be worth a fortune. Hand in hand with a spiritual relationship is the urge to give to your loved one, through special deeds or words shared with the intent to make each day more joyful.
2. Grow Spiritually Together
The more a couple focuses on soul growth, the more their relationship prospers. In fact, the level of love reached between enlightened partners is arguably a deeper, richer one than that of those who do not dedicate themselves to the spiritual path. As like attracts like, you will draw into your life a partner who is on a similar soul level. In other words, the fact that you are together means, at this point in time anyway, you match your mate's soul "vibration."
Transforming your relationship into a soul union will probably include meditating (jointly or separately). There is no better way to strengthen a spiritual connection than by practicing meditation, as both partners will benefit from the increased peace and wisdom that quiet contemplation provides. When you and your mate are on a higher spiritual wavelength, there is a greater likelihood of experiencing both harmony and fulfillment on the road of life together.
3. Spiritual Sex
A natural consequence of a soul bond is a strong sexual connection. Unlike a superficial interaction which may be focused solely on the physical, a sexual relationship that has at its core a profound spiritual link will prove more satisfying, provide more happiness, and serve as a springboard to continued spiritual growth. Sex is the direct medium through which one can access the higher realms of spirit while remaining earthbound. In fact, sex is the natural expression of spirit in human form, designed to bring us pleasure while at the same time being our gateway to the soul.
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